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3 ways to build a Solo Travel Mindset

May 17, 2022

One of the questions I get asked a lot about solo travel is “how do you travel to all those places alone? Don’t you feel lonely aren’t you afraid?

The honest answer is No. I don’t feel afraid of solo traveling because I prepare and plan my trip meticulously so that I feel comfortable. I have shared several blog posts about how I prepare for solo travel from a personal security perspective. In this post, I will share things I did to develop the comfort level to keep my own company on international trips abroad for extended periods of time.

3 easy steps you can take to build the courage and mindset to take your first solo trip!

  1. Take Yourself to Dinner Alone. This is something I do often. I find a great restaurant everyone is raving about, book a reservation, and go solo dolo! I love saying “La Mesa para uno personas por favor.” “Or a table for one person please.”
  2. Go To The Movies Solo. This is another favorite of mine. I hate talking in the movies so going alone allows me to focus on what is happening on screen without having to focus on anyone else. While my favorite thing will always be going to the movies with my son, a close second is going to the movies on my lonesome. It has really helped me be comfortable with being by myself for an extended period of time. Buy a ticket to an evening (not matinee) and see a movie all on your own. I promise you will enjoy it.
  3. Do a local weekend getaway. Take two days and check out a bed and breakfast you’ve been curious about. Or book a hotel downtown in your city and treat yourself to a spa day. But do it alone. Doing this will give you the experience of staying in a hotel room alone for a short period in a town or city where you are comfortable. After this, think about doing a weekend in another major city nearby and see how it feels.

Solo travel is a great way to meet new people and see the world. But it can be risky, too. Here are some mistakes you should avoid if you want to stay safe

These 3 practical steps will help you build the confidence needed to do fun things solo! The key is to practice doing things you might ordinarily do with one or more people, solo! Practice doing things completely alone and envision a solo trip domestically and then internationally. Try them and see how you feel after each one! Then start planning your first solo trip!

No matter where you plan to solo travel your travel should include a travel safety plan. Grab the BaldGirlWillTravel: A Guide to Travel Safety and Security for Solo Female Travelers and ensure you follow the safety tips to ensure a safe solo travel experience.

A great way to plan safe and fun travel excursions is through  Viator. Check them out for great deals on walking tours, tours of popular places and airport transfers.  As a woman traveling alone, I make a special point to plan my excursions in advance and I especially love Viator because I have the option of not paying in full until 48 hours before my tour date and I can get a refund until 24 hours before my tour!

How do I get the best prices on flights to all my adventures? I rely on Going (formerly Scotts Cheap Flights). I am always confident that the prices I find on Going are the lowest I will find anywhere.

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    Here is what 7 nights in Nairobi, Kenya cost me. Here is what 7 nights in Nairobi, Kenya cost me.

Please note that I didn’t fly round trip because Nairobi what is the second stop in a five weeklong trip on the continent of Africa. 

The biggest ticket item for me on this leg of my trip was my airfare. The flight from Senegal to Kenya routed me through Mali and Addis Ababa Ethiopia and took 12.5 hours. I made a choice to invest in business class for the longest part of the flight which was 10 hours. Flying  around Africa can get expensive especially if you’re going from east to west or west to south so keep that in mind when you’re planning. It’s best to stay in one region if you want to keep the cost down.

I used some of my Chase Sapphire points to offset the cost of seven nights at the 5 star Sarova Stanley Hotel. Well worth it!

And I ate a lot at the hotel and drank a lot at the bar so I did run up a bit of a tab for food in Kenya.👀😳🍷🍷

I did some a fun tours using Viator and it was super affordable. When I think of everything I did, I’m surprised to see that I only paid $95 for a tour that took me to the giraffe Center, the elephant sanctuary, and a bead factory. 

I thoroughly enjoyed myself in Nairobi, and I recommend it! Read my blog post at the link in bio to learn more about everything that I did in Nairobi!

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    In my YouTube live this week and my current blog p In my YouTube live this week and my current blog post I hope I laid a rest for all times my response to the question “is Mexico safe for solo travel?“ Considering that these inquiries primarily come from Americans, who live in arguably one of the most dangerous countries in the entire world, I find it ironic. But I have given a lengthy response In my last YouTube live and in my blog post. I’m sure someone will still come in my comments and either make a snarky remark or ask the question again🙄 Do I think Mexico does not require any safety precautions? Of course not. There’s nowhere in the world that’s completely safe. And Mexico has its problems as does almost every country in the world, but I find it eminently safe for Solo travel as long as you exercise common sense and basic situational awareness. I explain what I mean and the things that I specifically think are important for solo travel to Mexico in my blog post and on my YouTube chat. You can catch both at the link in bio, but the bottom line is Mexico is safe for tourist travel, including solo travel. unless you’re planning to hang out in a border town 👀👀 you should be perfectly fine. Always do your homework about your destination. If you have relationships with the locals, ask them as well and don’t come down here and just drop all your defenses. Exercise common sense and situational awareness and you will be OK. Happy traveling! #vivamexico #solotravel #safetravels #travel #travelsafe #melanin #blackgirlstraveltoo #travelover50 #seesomeworld
    Here is what six nights and seven days in Dakar Se Here is what six nights and seven days in Dakar Senegal cost me.

Please note that I didn’t fly round trip because Dakar I flew next to Nairobi, so those cost will be included in my breakdown of the cost for my stay in Nairobi Kenya. 

Overall, I think I did pretty well considering what 7-10 days  in Egypt and Ghana are going to cost me in an group trip later this year👀👀

I thoroughly enjoyed myself in Dakar, and I highly recommend it! #solotravel #dakar #senegal #wheretostay #costbreakdown #melanin #blackwomentravel #travelgram #travel #travelblogger #blackandabroad #traveltips
    Is Mexico safe? Is it safe for solo travel? This i Is Mexico safe? Is it safe for solo travel? This is a question that I get asked a lot. In light of the events a month ago, I will revisit my thoughts about solo travel and Safety in Mexico tonight on my weekly Thursday teatime on #YouTube. I’ll talk a bit about the places. I think are safe and ideal for solo travel and places I think you should avoid. You can subscribe to my channel at the link in bio and I’ll see you later at 6 PM CST and 8 PM EDT for a little chat  Grab your glass of wine and join me.  #mexico #solotravel #travel #safetravels #travelsafely #travelsafety
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    On this weeks Thursday teatime🫖 I will share my On this weeks Thursday teatime🫖 I will share my thoughts on whether I think Mexico is safe for solo travel. I will speak about this from my perspective as a 50+ woman who solo travels around Mexico. So if you’re planning a solo trip to Mexico, make sure you join this live.

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Hey everyone! Are you planning on traveling with your iPhone soon? Here are my top 5 tips to keep it safe during your journey:

1.    Use a protective case and screen protector to prevent scratches and cracks.
2.    Set a passcode or use biometric authentication (like Touch ID or Face ID) to secure your device.
3.    Turn on Find My iPhone so you can locate your phone if it gets lost or stolen.
4.    Keep your phone close to you and never leave it unattended in public places.
5.    Avoid connecting to unsecured Wi-Fi networks, as they may put your personal information at risk.

Read my blog post at the link in bio for all 10 of my iPhone Solo Travel Safety Tips.

At this Thursdays TeaTime I am talking Safe Solo Travel in Mexico and sharing my thoughts on whether Mexico is safe for solo travel.

I spent 15+ years overseeing global security in the international development sector. The most important thing to remember when traveling alone, especially as a woman, is to practice situational awareness and common sense. If it feels wrong even for a minute don’t do it. 

I share solo travel safety and security advice based on my 15+ years of experience in the downloadable BaldGirlWillTravel: A Guide to Travel Safety and Security for Solo Female Travelers” 

Grab yours at the link in bio or here: https://baldgirlwilltravel.com/product/bald-girl-will-travel-a-guide-to-travel-safety-security-for-solo-female-travelers/

At $15 a download it’s a bargain and it will tell you what you need to know about traveling alone as a woman and doing it safely. It’s been recently updated. 

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    If you're looking for an unforgettable experience If you're looking for an unforgettable experience during your visit to Nairobi, Kenya, then you have to check out the Giraffe Center!

The Giraffe Center is a non-profit organization that aims to provide a home for the endangered Rothschild's giraffe. This center is located just 20 minutes away from Nairobi's city center, making it a must-visit spot for both locals and tourists.

One of the highlights of visiting the Giraffe Center is the opportunity to get up close and personal with these majestic creatures. You can feed them with specially prepared pellets from a raised platform and even get a giraffe kiss by placing a pellet in your mouth and letting the giraffe take it from you!

The Giraffe Center also provides education to visitors on the importance of conservation efforts and the work being done to protect the giraffe population in Kenya.

Overall, the Giraffe Center is an amazing destination that offers a unique experience with these beautiful animals while supporting conservation efforts. Make sure to add it to your bucket list and let us know in the comments if you've had the chance to visit! 

I will tell you all about my visit to the Giraffe Center at this Thursday’s Tea Time!

Also read my blog post about my visit to Nairobi Kenya at the link in bio.

Join me on my #youtube #channel each and every Thursdays at 6p Central, 7p EST or on the replay to discuss a Solo Travel topic. Grab your favorite beverage while I spill the tea about the good bad and ugly of traveling over 50 solo

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